Horrible isn't it?
It makes you so vulnerable.
and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up.
then one stupid person,
no different from any other stupid person,
wanders into your stupid life...
and then your life isn't your own anymore.
so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends'
or 'how very perceptive' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart.
a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.